tools (datetime, utils): fix incorrect use of naive object: `tools.datetime.format_datetime` was expecting aware datetime objects while `tools.utils.xmpp_date` was returning naive datetime objects. A check has been added to the former one, and latter one has been modified to return aware datetime objects.

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