mod_auth_oauth_external: Allow different username in PLAIN vs final JID Mastodon for example having email addresses usernames in login, but a different username in the service itself. Thanks to @tcit@social.tcit.fr for the pointer to a usable validation endpoint for Mastodon, allowing this to be tested.

This module lets you block connections to any remote servers not on a
whitelist.

``` {.lua}
modules_enabled = {
    -- other modules --
    "s2s_whitelist",

}
s2s_whitelist = {
    "example.org",
}
```