mod_smacks: Fix some bugs with smacks-ack-delayed event triggering. The old code had several flaws which are addressed here. First of all this fixes the if statement guarding the event generation There where some timing glitches addressed by this commit as well.

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summary: Remote Roster Management
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Introduction
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This module adds support for [XEP-0321: Remote Roster Management] which
is commonly used to allow components such as transports to modify the
rosters of local users.