mod_smacks: Fix some bugs with smacks-ack-delayed event triggering. The old code had several flaws which are addressed here. First of all this fixes the if statement guarding the event generation There where some timing glitches addressed by this commit as well.

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summary: Extra verbose stanza logging
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Summary
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This module logs the full stanzas that are sent and received into debug
logs, for debugging purposes.